Comments on: How do you feel about men spanking their wives with the belt for punishment? A pastor told me this was wrong?

By: dolphin_chic_15

dolphin_chic_15 — Wed, 02 Dec 2009 16:01:14 +0000

My boyfriend always spanks me when I’m bad. I really like it so i guess thats what makes it ok. I get so turned on, we always end up making out after. If the wife is offended, then the husband shouldn’t. It really depends on if he’s using it to control her, or if he’s using it in play (and she enjoys that form of play).

By: Star

Star — Wed, 02 Dec 2009 16:01:14 +0000

It is wrong.Women are not here to be beaten.

By: sp

sp — Wed, 02 Dec 2009 16:01:14 +0000

of course it is wrong, is he sick…your too old to get spanked. This in called control by placing fear in you. Know your exits and leave.

By: MR Obvious

MR Obvious — Wed, 02 Dec 2009 16:01:14 +0000

Obviously it depends…………….
It’s really between the husband and wife.
That being said, punishment should always be given with love and never out of anger.
I know this isn’t popular but just look around, many women seem to want to be punished for real or imagined wrongs. So often they hook up with guys that don’t just punish them , but that truly abuse them.

By: Dollywood

Dollywood — Wed, 02 Dec 2009 16:01:14 +0000

Sounds like the pastor wants to be spanked! If you enjoy spankings then spank on! Make sure it hits the vagina too. She should really stick her ass in the air and spread her knees apart to fully enjoy getting a spanking.

By: Wants More

Wants More — Wed, 02 Dec 2009 16:01:14 +0000

my ex loved it! she got so turned on by a good spanking, she just loved being a "bad girl"

By: tethysis

tethysis — Wed, 02 Dec 2009 16:01:14 +0000

Screw the pester. What the hell does he know?

If it is Safe, Sane and Consensual, having one partner spank to other is strictly between those people. How you two work out your relationship with one another is no one’s business but yours.

If you enjoy spanking and if your partner enjoys being spanked, while a little odd, it is up to you two and you two alone. For all the people here that find my words offensive, screw you too.

By: virgin guy

virgin guy — Wed, 02 Dec 2009 16:01:14 +0000

How can u dare to even lay a hand on your wife ever? There is no excuse. She is supposed to be your soulmate, your best friend and the better half of you. Plus think about ur dad spanking your own mother. Would any son or daughter like to see this. Neverrrrrrrrrrr and i mean never is a hubby supposed to abuse his wife in this manner.
There is no excuse for this

By: i rawkkk

i rawkkk — Wed, 02 Dec 2009 16:01:14 +0000

me and my fiance practice domestic discipline. we both agreee to it, its not abuse.
he is very fair
i dont get spanked in public
he holds me and tells me loves me after every spanking
im alot more respectful
it helped our relationship tons
he doesnt beat me or anything, i just get a spanking
its perfectly fine

By: Lauren

Lauren — Wed, 02 Dec 2009 16:01:13 +0000

wrong, talk things out.