26 Responses to “How do you feel about men spanking their wives with the belt for punishment? A pastor told me this was wrong?”

1. Lauren Says:
   December 2nd, 2009 at 9:01 am

   wrong, talk things out.

2. courtney Says:
   December 2nd, 2009 at 9:01 am

   ummm… i don’t think a husband should punish their wives…especially not the way they would punish their children!

3. TrevorG Says:
   December 2nd, 2009 at 9:01 am

   Thats abuse! It’s not ok for any occasion. Just think, what is you was the woman and you both didn’t agree on something. You need to look at it at both situations.

4. blondeMSS Says:
   December 2nd, 2009 at 9:01 am

   believe what you think is right, but it is never ok to hurt another physically. it is considered abuse. but everyone is different.

5. Country Boy Can Survive Says:
   December 2nd, 2009 at 9:01 am

   My wife and I have been faithfully practicing Doemstic discipline for our entire 9 year marriage and fior the first few months before we wed she agrees and I do too. I use a belt for serious offenses and my hand for minor.

6. Firestorm Says:
   December 2nd, 2009 at 9:01 am

   It is illegal and falls under domestic violence.

7. President Pelosi Says:
   December 2nd, 2009 at 9:01 am

   As long as you take turns, I see no problem with it, a good old pants down spanking can be rousing fun.

8. Chavezzz Says:
   December 2nd, 2009 at 9:01 am

   Only if she asks you to…

9. Sheila H Says:
   December 2nd, 2009 at 9:01 am

   that’s abusive, or unless the wife wanted her husband to spank her or somthing

10. BabeHeart Says:
    December 2nd, 2009 at 9:01 am

    That’s between the couple, and no one else. If they are okay with it, it’s their biz. It’s not typical behavior (in the US) but some people have unique beliefs and ideas of how relationships should work.

    You should believe that it’s ONLY okay when the adult person you are spanking (or considering spanking) is okay with it. If that person isn’t okay with it, then it is not okay. Only the people involved get votes that matter…what outsiders think is irrelevant.

11. Caterina Says:
    December 2nd, 2009 at 9:01 am

    Spouses are meant to work as a team. They are not supposed to spank one another… It is okay to fight every once in a while… but no spanking……..

12. Bill F Says:
    December 2nd, 2009 at 9:01 am

    This is a joke, right? Find somone else’s time to waste.

13. lin Says:
    December 2nd, 2009 at 9:01 am

    It’s entirely up to you and your fiancee. If she would be opposed to the practice, then your actions would be considered assault in the eyes of the law and you could be arrested. But consensual beatings may be another matter. I feel it’s sick, but it takes all kinds to make a world…

14. Rachel Says:
    December 2nd, 2009 at 9:01 am

    As long as she consents FINE my husband busts my butt when I am bad. In fact I got the belt last night for getting speeding ticket(I was going 70 in a 45)

    answr mine? http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20090726112534AA0vbHk

15. nena♥ Says:
    December 2nd, 2009 at 9:01 am

    i don’t think this is right either. i don’t think that you should punish anyone by beating them, nevertheless your wife. what if your wife did something so serious then you should be able to talk things through, what if she sues you for abuse?

16. Mabelline Says:
    December 2nd, 2009 at 9:01 am

    She’s an undercover freak!

17. BabyDoll86 Says:
    December 2nd, 2009 at 9:01 am

    A husband or husband-to-be should NEVER assume that he can put his hands on you. Why would you ever want to marry anyone who did this to you? Once you have children with this wife-beater, then what do you think he is going to do to your children? Beat them and teach them that beating is ok. Then you’re son is going to beat his wife and your daughter is going to get beat by her husband. Umm, did you SEE what happened to Chris Brown after he hit his girlfriend Rihanna?!? Yeah….

18. dolphin_chic_15 Says:
    December 2nd, 2009 at 9:01 am

    My boyfriend always spanks me when I’m bad. I really like it so i guess thats what makes it ok. I get so turned on, we always end up making out after. If the wife is offended, then the husband shouldn’t. It really depends on if he’s using it to control her, or if he’s using it in play (and she enjoys that form of play).

19. Star Says:
    December 2nd, 2009 at 9:01 am

    It is wrong.Women are not here to be beaten.

20. sp Says:
    December 2nd, 2009 at 9:01 am

    of course it is wrong, is he sick…your too old to get spanked. This in called control by placing fear in you. Know your exits and leave.

21. MR Obvious Says:
    December 2nd, 2009 at 9:01 am

    Obviously it depends…………….
    It’s really between the husband and wife.
    That being said, punishment should always be given with love and never out of anger.
    I know this isn’t popular but just look around, many women seem to want to be punished for real or imagined wrongs. So often they hook up with guys that don’t just punish them , but that truly abuse them.

22. Dollywood Says:
    December 2nd, 2009 at 9:01 am

    Sounds like the pastor wants to be spanked! If you enjoy spankings then spank on! Make sure it hits the vagina too. She should really stick her ass in the air and spread her knees apart to fully enjoy getting a spanking.

23. Wants More Says:
    December 2nd, 2009 at 9:01 am

    my ex loved it! she got so turned on by a good spanking, she just loved being a "bad girl"

24. tethysis Says:
    December 2nd, 2009 at 9:01 am

    Screw the pester. What the hell does he know?

    If it is Safe, Sane and Consensual, having one partner spank to other is strictly between those people. How you two work out your relationship with one another is no one’s business but yours.

    If you enjoy spanking and if your partner enjoys being spanked, while a little odd, it is up to you two and you two alone. For all the people here that find my words offensive, screw you too.

25. virgin guy Says:
    December 2nd, 2009 at 9:01 am

    How can u dare to even lay a hand on your wife ever? There is no excuse. She is supposed to be your soulmate, your best friend and the better half of you. Plus think about ur dad spanking your own mother. Would any son or daughter like to see this. Neverrrrrrrrrrr and i mean never is a hubby supposed to abuse his wife in this manner.
    There is no excuse for this

26. i rawkkk Says:
    December 2nd, 2009 at 9:01 am

    me and my fiance practice domestic discipline. we both agreee to it, its not abuse.
    he is very fair
    i dont get spanked in public
    he holds me and tells me loves me after every spanking
    im alot more respectful
    it helped our relationship tons
    he doesnt beat me or anything, i just get a spanking
    its perfectly fine

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